Down Payment Gift Letter for Mortgage

Some types of loans allow 100% of the down payment to be a gift from a friend or family member.

If you do have someone willing to pay the down payment on a mortgage for you, you’ll need a gift letter to accompany the funds.

This article details which types of loans allow gifted down payments, gifted down payment guidelines, and a template down payment gift letter.

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When a Down Payment Gift is Allowed

Down payments often serve as a hurdle to many homeownership goals. A recent study conducted by the Association of Realtors showed that the third biggest hurdle potential homeowners are scared of is the down payment. Luckily, there are loans available that offer 100% financing with NO down payment.

Donations of down payments can be applied to mortgages on your primary and second homes. Mortgages on investment property do not qualify for acceptance of gifts for down payments. Any Government or Private loan allows the down payment to be a gift from a friend or family member.

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Mortgage Programs that Allow Down Payment Gifts


Who Can Give You the Down Payment

Generally, lenders require that the donor have a family or marital relationship with the borrower. Depending on the loan, the following normally serve as acceptable sources of gifts for borrowers:

  • Spouse
  • Fiance or domestic partners
  • Child or dependent
  • Parent
  • Uncle, aunt, or other person related by blood or marriage
  • Legal guardian

For loans backed by FHA, a “close friend” who documents his or her “clearly defined” interest in the transaction will suffice. Depending on the lender, “close friends” don’t qualify as donors for conventional mortgages.

The Gift Letter

Your lender will likely require a “gift letter for a mortgage” signed by the donor. This constitutes one way your bank or mortgage company verifies that you’re receiving a gift, not incurring debt. The gift letter should contain:

  • The name, address, and telephone number of the donor
  • The donor’s relationship to you
  • The dollar amount of the gift
  • The date of transfer of the funds for the gift
  • State that the donor does not expect repayment from you
  • Street address of the property being purchased


Download this gift letter for a mortgage here. You can fill this letter out and submit it to your mortgage lender.

How Much Can be Gifted

For a Federal Housing Administration (FHA), borrowers generally can make the down payment entirely from donated funds. However, if your credit score falls between 580 and 619, at least 3.5 percent of the purchase price must come from your own money instead of the donor’s funds.

If you’re pursuing a conventional loan, you can make the down payment totally from the gift if you put down at least 20 percent of the purchase price.

For loans that equal more than 80 percent of the purchase price, the type of mortgage will determine what must come from your own money. On loans backed by FannieMae or FreddieMac, you can rely completely on gifted funds if you’re buying a single-family residence. You must contribute at least five percent from your own money if you’re borrowing for a two-to-four unit principal residence or a second home.

Some conventional lenders may require you to include some of your own money with the gift for the down payment any time your loan-to-value ratio exceeds 80 percent. Check with your lender for its specific requirements in such a situation.

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Assistance from Labor Unions and Other Organizations

Borrowers of FHA-backed loans can obtain equity gifts via their labor unions or employers or from charitable organizations.

Gifts from charitable organizations are permitted on FHA loans if the organization held tax-exempt status on or before the date of the purchase contract. To determine if your charitable donor is tax-exempt, go to the Internal Revenue Service’s “Exempt Organizations Select Check Tool.

FHA also accepts down payment assistance, such as grants, furnished by governmental agencies that serve low or moderate-income borrowers or first-time home buyers.

Donor With an Interest

Your donor cannot have a financial interest in you getting the loan for FHA and conventional loans. Thus, the following people are typically prohibited from gifting you the down payment:

  • Seller
  • Real estate agent or broker
  • Builder or contractor
  • Developer
  • Anyone affiliated with these parties


FHA treats a “gift” from an interested party as an inducement for you to purchase the property. As a result, these “gifts” must be subtracted from the purchase price.

Proof of Donation vs. Loan

Your lender or the FHA will require you to prove that the donor does not expect payment in return for the “gift.”

The distinction between loan and gift is essential to a lender’s decision to approve a loan. Lenders underwrite loans based on your credit score, assets, and ability to pay. In particular, your debt-to-income ratio generally should not exceed 36 percent. With some exceptions, federal guidelines cap the ratio at 43 percent.

If the “gift” is actually a loan, you will be denied the mortgage because of a lack of down payment funds. If you’re required to pay back any portion of the gifted down payment, it’s considered a loan.

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Documenting the Withdrawal

In addition to the gift letter, you need proof that the money came from the donor or donor’s account. This involves, depending on how the donor paid, a copy of the canceled personal check, canceled certified check, money order, withdrawal slip from the donor’s bank account. Also, ask your donor to have a copy of their bank statement showing the withdrawal of the money.

More on Employer Assistance

Fannie Mae permits your employer, including a credit union affiliated with your employer, to loan you money for a down payment under certain circumstances:

  • A direct loan which you pay back in full, either as a second mortgage or unsecured loan
  • A second mortgage or unsecured loan, either of which can be forgiven
  • A second mortgage or unsecured loan in which your obligation to repay is deferred or delayed


If the employer grants you a second mortgage and requires regular payment each month, that monthly payment is figured into your debt-to-income ratio. A second loan for the downpayment is usually for 80/10/10 piggyback mortgage loans.

Other Gifts Allowed in the Mortgage Process

Paying Off Other Debt

For FHA loans, unless it is a family member, donors, including nonprofit organizations, cannot pay off installment loans, credit card debt accounts in collections, judgments, or liens.

FHA does not treat payment of consumer debts by non-family members as acceptable down payment assistance. Instead, such payoffs of consumer debt constitute an inducement to purchase and trigger a dollar-for-dollar reduction of the purchase price.

Gift of Equity

A gift of equity may be allowed by your lender for conventional loans. The seller reduces the purchase price by some of the seller’s equity in the home. These credits are allowed on the purchase of the main home and a second home.

FHA does not permit equity credits from the seller, as these are deemed inducements to the borrower. An equity credit will lead to FHA, reducing the purchase price.

If you enlist down payment assistance, make sure you understand the obligations imposed on your donor and you. Contact your lender to learn the specific rules for accepting and documenting a gift of mortgage or other down payment assistance.

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